When You want to make use of the mantra, You should give the individual one thing to take in. This item should be bound [abhimintrit] by this mantra by holding some thing edible and chanting the mantra. ॐ खां ग्‍याम ग्‍याह महुम पति/पत्निं वश्यम् कुरुह कुरु स्वाहा: Each individual scenario https://tantramantraaurvigyaan.com/